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Due to one of my friends pleading.. or basically telling me I will be accompanying her to see the next edition of the Twilight Saga: Breaking Dawn movie, and then me informing her that I have not read any of the books or seen any of the movies.. Two days later I had her entire series of books written by Stephenie Meyer to read… and about a month to complete the task of read them all.. Whoa! So, I am fairly certain I will post several more times on my thoughts about the story as I read through this series. But, in the last 3-4 days I have read about 3/4 of the first book, and I thought I would share my thoughts on this book so far.. and why I feel like it appeals to teenage girls.. young women.. and even older women so much, or not at all.
So, in case you have not read the books (no reason to feel guilty), the basic story plot (if you don’t know), is Bella a 17 year old girl moves from Phoenix to Forks, WA to be with her Dad… She hates the small town and the gloomy weather, but true to any girl’s dream she finds that virtually every boy in this town likes her.. but she is drawn to Edward.. (and later Jacob).. Turns out Edward is a Vampire that is part of a “family” that does not eat people because of moral reasons. Jacob is part of a Native American tribe that are actually werewolves.. (although so far, Jacob is unaware that he’s a werewolf… and is not a major role in the book yet..)
Here are the things that I can easily see as appealing about the Twilight book and love story:
It is CLEARLY written by a woman, she understands the constant battle between emotions and logic (Bella knows it’s a bad idea but is drawn to him anyway.. wants to touch him, but is afraid it’ll make it more difficult for him.. worried for his safety.. etc.. etc..).
Meyers clearly understands the desire that girls/women have to be fought for, protected, cherished, and found more beautiful than any other girl… We love the feeling when get from those things, and in normal life (today.. or throughout history) girls/women do not feel that way much, often, or at all.
There is an appeal that this book has that makes the female reader desire to be cherished like Bella is cherished. It is a powerful thing.
I love how easy the book is to read, I am not sure if that was on purpose or a mere side effect of Meyer being a new writer.
I enjoy certain aspects of the descriptions.. like the vampires have changing eye color depending on their mood. (how cool would THAT be?!)
The things I find borderline obnoxious:
Bella’s narrative is CONSTANTLY describing him as angel like, perfect, beautiful etc… (He stood there stone like with an angel like face… His perfect face… etc..etc..) the first introduction and getting to know Edward/Bella it was fine.. (especially since it’s part of his “vampire charm”..) now that they are “together” the description is getting old.
I find their conversations amusing, but their physical contact distracting.. (I think it’s awkward that he holds her so much… cradles her in a rocking chair.. etc.. etc..)
The initial, the idea of having a guy you love watch you sleep sounds romantic.. but really it is just awkward..
Vampire or not, no one can resist something indefinitely on “mind over matter,” it is impossible (so him holding her while she sleeps is not even close to a good idea.. and really a rather stupid part of the story)
So, while the story itself is entertaining enough, and thankfully easy to read so I can fly through it rather quickly (thank you mom and dad for facilitating me to become a reader..). But, what I keep thinking about as I read this story is the appeal it has to teenage girls and their moms.. (It was all over the news) and I keep thinking about how all that really does is highlight how much women are starving for their God given roles to be a part of an adventure, loved fiercely, protected, found beautiful etc… and how many girls and women are drawn to this book/series because they are lacking in this area.
Which then brings me back to a thought, “Where have all the good men gone?” Not in an angry, frustrated, or condescending way, but in a serious, slightly sad, and honest question sorta way…