I spend a great deal of my day online, it is a part of my job, and I love it. I enjoy reading news articles, interest stories, blogs, twitter, facebook, youtube.. I mean you name it and I at least partially am aware of what it is (or will be tomorrow haha).
My favorite medium is blogs, I love them. I love getting a deeper insight into someone’s view of the world, cause let’s be honest, 140 characters while providing a wonderful platform for laughs just does not connect my heart to yours… So, I blog.
However, upon occasion I get fed up with the “trends,” I get tired of reading all the different perspectives on things going on in the world, I get frustrated at both sides of the argument attacking the other for their incompetence, their ignorance etc… etc.. Each side claiming the other is for one reason or another stupid, idiot, un-christian, christian, unloving, loving.. blah blah blah. I just get tired of reading the (thankfully) first amendment right to share opinions.
While I definitely have my own opinions of gay marriage, Obama, government official’s views on religion and gay marriage.. the thing I keep coming back to is:
“Conduct yourselves with wisdom toward outsiders, making the most of the opportunity. Let your speech always be with grace, as though seasoned with salt, so that you will know how you should respond to each person.” – Colossians 4:5-6
Did you catch that?
“Conduct yourselves with wisdom toward outsiders,
making the most of the opportunity.
Let your speech always be with grace.”
The thing that I am the most frustrated with is the lack of ACTUAL conversation about this (or any other hot topic) issues. What is NC saying by voting against gay marriage by such a resounding 20% (which is a huge margin)? Clearly there is reasoning there.. but no one is asking what it is, instead the people who think it is a mean or hateful decision are turning into bullies and name calling or accusing the people who voted against it of being (fill in the blank). Then, in response some Christians are not responding with grace. Instead, they are taking this opportunity to antagonize the situation… Yes, thank you for your sharp wit, but really shut up cause you are hurting the entire conversation at large…
Instead of taking this opportunity to reach out to a very hurt and broken community, and openly admit we are against the sin not the sinner, we are “fighting” back in a manner that causes our voice to get lost in the collective internet noise.
“You were made for so much more than these shadows of who you are clinging onto as your identity.
You were made for more.”
And, once again, I always come back to caring more about the individual’s state of salvation and brokenness, and not really caring about the laws, the public policies or the media’s dogging of the issue… If I am going to say I believe in the Bible and its Truths (capital T), and then if they come into conflict with the government’s laws, I have to choose the Biblical laws over the government’s.
And, to be clear, I have yet to meet anyone who is not completely and totally sinful. Your sexual orientation does not make you better or worse, it makes you fallen and broken.. regardless of if you are “straight” or “gay”… You are broken and sinful.
I am broken and sinful too.
“Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and of death….
For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” – Romans 8:1-2, 38-39
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Excellent entry, Krista! Thanks for sharing, and for reminding us of what the REAL issues are!
Oh, I wish you could be here to see THIS North Carolinian's standing ovation for this post. I couldn't agree more!
Hey Krista, I just wanted you to know your example of love to those of us who do agree with a gay lifestyle, is just such a welcome fresh breeze of loving communication. I would wish so many of the so called Christians out there would read this and put it into practice. Thank you so much for writing this. KAA